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What is Domestic Violence?
According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, on average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the United States. During one year, this equates to more than 10 million women and men. In this month’s blog we want...
KLF and COVID-19
According to the National Commission on COVID-19 and Criminal Justice, domestic violence incidents increased 8.1% after jurisdictions imposed pandemic-related lockdown orders.1 As a result, Kathy’s Legacy also experienced an increase. Our Silver Lining program, which...
Why We Can’t Forget The Pets
Kathy’s Legacy’s mission is to serve children and pets impacted by domestic violence. However, it is not often you hear about pets in relation to domestic violence. Unfortunately, the reality is pets play significant roles in DV situations but often go...
Silver Lining Spotlight: Family 4
Note: Kathy’s Legacy does not share photos of the children's faces or use their real names. Names have been changed to protect their privacy. In early February 2013, Isabel met with her estranged husband in the parking lot of the Imperial Beach Sheriff substation for...
How a Positive Evolved from a Tragedy
Jim Willis was the police detective who investigated Kathy’s murder case. Jim has been a peace officer in California for over 20 years. After the conclusion of the investigation, he developed a bond with the Scharbarth family. Jim now proudly serves as President of...
Domestic Violence Awareness Month
National Domestic Violence Awareness Month first began in 1981 by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence as a Day of Unity to connect battered women’s advocates across the country. During October we have the opportunity to raise awareness about domestic...
A Note from Kathy’s Brother
I am the younger brother of Kathy Scharbarth. When my sister was murdered there was a domino effect that had been set into place. All of a sudden my family was struck with mourning the loss of a loved one, custody issues over my niece, psychological challenges,...
Silver Lining Spotlight: Family 3
Note: Kathy’s Legacy does not share photos of the children's faces or use their real names. Names have been changed to protect their privacy. In August 2017, Kelly, at the time age 9 and Joey age 8, were eating breakfast when their mother’s boyfriend, came running...
Silver Lining Spotlight: Family 2
Note: Kathy’s Legacy does not share photos of the children's faces or use their real names. Names have been changed to protect their privacy. A couple of years ago, Marguerite, a fearful mother of two sons, ages 10 and 5, called the police department requesting...
Silver Lining Spotlight: Our First Family
Note: Kathy’s Legacy does not share photos of the children's faces or use their real names. Names have been changed to protect their privacy. 6 years ago, Lauren, Julia and Sara’s mother agreed to go shopping with her estranged husband to choose Christmas presents for...